
In the final episode of the Round Table, Yasmine Covo speaks with Williamson Emmanuel Kalpokas, a communications specialist and graphic designer from Lelepa Island, about social media, masculinity, faith, and the challenges shaping young men in Vanuatu today. Drawing from personal experience, Williamson reflects on how upbringing, peer influence, and online spaces shape behavior and identity.
A central theme is the influence of social media, particularly how online behavior often reflects real-life environments and relationships. Williamson emphasizes the role of peer influence, explaining, “It’s also about the crowd that you follow… the people that you interact with on a daily basis,” highlighting how social circles shape attitudes and actions.
The conversation explores the overlap between online and offline worlds, noting that harmful behaviors are not isolated to the internet but rooted in deeper influences. Williamson also discusses the “manosphere,” acknowledging the importance of men supporting each other while drawing a clear boundary: “Men should empower each other, but not demoralise others.”
Faith plays a significant role in his perspective, shaping his views on relationships, values, and personal growth. He encourages intentional living and discernment, especially in navigating online content and influences.
The discussion also touches on relationships, personal responsibility, and the importance of setting boundaries. Williamson stresses that growth often requires stepping away from negative environments and influences, noting that change is a gradual process.
A key moment in the conversation is his reflection on personal transformation through faith, as he shares, “When you finally find Jesus, your life just turns around,” describing how this shift helped him move away from harmful influences and adopt a more positive direction.
The episode also highlights gaps in opportunities and support systems for young men, encouraging initiative, self-awareness, and the ability to recognize potential. The role of technology and AI is discussed as an opportunity rather than a threat, with an emphasis on adapting and using tools responsibly.
Toward the end, the conversation expands to national issues, particularly leadership and accountability, stressing the importance of strong values in shaping society.
Overall, the episode offers a thoughtful look at the challenges and opportunities facing young men in Vanuatu, emphasizing the importance of mindset, faith, environment, and personal responsibility in shaping a better future.
